What’s the connection?
Think about this.
With every thought and feeling, you are affirming something.
What you affirm, what you think and feel, add up neuron by neuron into the neuropathways of the brain that become an ambient mood than leans in the direction of a way of believing and thinking.
It is not as though we base our thoughts on facts; to the contrary, that is seldom the case unless make that our intention.
Every thought and feeling is affirming something that is a building block upon which you are building your predisposition to mood and thought.
What are you affirming throughout the day?
What is your mood, what are your feelings, what are you thinking?
In our Emotional Gym, you learn to “lift” the weight of a positive emotion.
You start small and then make the feeling heavier, weightier. You can learn to get there in instant, you can learn to nurse a positive feeling in the same way you nurse a negative one, and then you can intensify those feelings.
What are you affirming as you think and feel?
Why feelings and not thoughts?
We think our thoughts are all powerful, but they are very often simply the expressions of patterns of “used to” feelings that have originated in the oldest part of the brain, the amygdala.
There we have learned to associate and feel almost instantaneously the feelings we so subtly and usually feel, that we don’t even know they are driving our moods, our anxieties, and our ups and downs.
And in case you’re skeptical about these thought and feeling patterns you’re creating every day, here’s the research on sleep that you need to know.
You need an average of 7-9 hours of sleep every night.
This gives the brain an opportunity to flush out the “clutter” that builds up, like protein plaques and beta amyloid tangles, through an ingenious disposal mechanism called the glymphatic system.
Over the long term, that can buffer you against cognitive decline, dementia, even Alzheimer’s.
What you think and feel, what you habitually “affirm” during your day, MATTERS.
What are you affirming as you enter into sleep?
© Dr. William K. Larkin