One of the most uncomfortable places of all can be in the formulation of what we want. Most people don’t really know what they want so getting to “knowing” that it’s happening is full of anxiety, unrest, doubt and even dread. A lot of people solve this by detaching themselves from their wanting. Whole religions are based upon killing your desires and stamping out your attachments; instead of flogging the flesh we can flog our wanting and desiring in an attempt to become “empty” or “purified.” No thanks; been there, done that, got the scars.
The formulation of wanting has to emerge in one way or another because it is creation moving forward through you. You have to want what you want even if it changes. But once you want, the space between wanting something and knowing you have it can be full of unrest. This is the secret of getting your vibration aligned with the absolute good of God (or Source, or Essence, Mother Earth, Allah, Buddha, or Jesus.) Live right now in the feelings of what you would feel like if you had what you want.
HOW CAN THAT BE? How can we do that? What we really want ultimately is love, peace, gratitude, joy, and hope. Learn to live in such a way that everyday you experience the UpSpiral of these feelings and the thinking that accompanies them. In this way, you will close the gap between wanting and knowing that you have it already, that in one way or another it’s on its way in one form or another. Try it, you’ll like it. And you’ll get what you want.