Separating myself from another person has an ENORMOUS cost.
It is the kind of separation that is in my head and causes me to cast someone out of my inner circle of “loving” into my inner circle of “not caring.”
We usually do it because of anger or fear or both.
We are afraid that we will be hurt by them, and so we put them in a place in our mind that is “separate” from our caring, loving heart.
They are an outsider “inside of me.”
That is separation.
That separation distances us from the knowing and embodying a sense of Oneness.
The more disconnected we are from this sense of Oneness, the more we have lessened our vibration to draw to ourselves the things and people that we really want.
Because our alignment with our real self means being aligned with love.
Love is Source Energy within us, and it is our essential nature.
Forgiveness is not simply a matter of “forgiving and letting go of anger, dislike and disgust.”
Forgiveness is restoring our own inner “Oneness” by not casting outside the inner circle of our love anyone who has let us down, betrayed us, or caused us to personalize their indiscretion, in such a way that we believe that their shortcoming is about us instead of them.
We reduce the power of the “One” within us when we create inner mental “compartments” for the “outcasts” in our lives.
Those inner compartments reduce the vibration which creates our world, and draws rapidly and powerfully to us what we are really wanting.
© Dr. William K. Larkin